Oh, The Glamourous Life!

Dear Constant Reader,

Happy New Year! Thank you for being here! I hope 2024 is going to be kind to us all. Here’s your tip!

When applying to festivals, make sure you can get there.

That is, if you’re flying, what do flights cost? How do you get to the festival location once you arrive, especially if it isn’t near an airport? Are you going to need to rent a car? What’s the public transit situation? If you’re driving, how long is it going to take? Do you need to spend a night somewhere on the way? Do you need someone to swap off driving?

For example, The Great Burlesque Expo is in Salem, MA. Most people are going to fly into Logan Airport, in Boston, 45 minutes to an hour away by car. There are options, like taking the Boston-Salem train, but you’ll want to make sure you know stuff like how to get from the airport to the train station.

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Dear Constant Reader,

It’s the last Friday Tip of 2023!

This is more of a wish for the coming year than a tip:

Be kind to yourself and to others.

See you in 2024!

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Dear Constant Reader,

Happy Friday! I hope you have your tickets to BRRRlesque tonight because we are sold out!

Here’s your tip:

Most Western music is in 4/4 time, which lends itself to moves in fours. To shake things up, try three moves that are the same and one that’s different. 

For example, instead of four alternating hip bumps (right, left, right, left), try right, left, right, front. Extra credit if the last move is more dynamic or explosive, like three little chest shimmies followed by a chest pop.

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Dear Constant Reader,

Happy Friday! Things are a bit chaotic at The Manor right now. I’ll tell you more when things are a bit calmer (not to worry — it’s good). Here’s your tip:

Embrace change.

Whether that’s changing the lineup of a show mid-show, reworking the choreography of an established act, or otherwise turning things on their head, it’s usually more rewarding to say “Yes, and…” than  “No, but…”

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Dear Constant Reader,

Happy Friday! And a happy Friday it is. I got some good news that I’ll probably be sharing later on. Here’s your tip.

When creating pasties, remember that the finished product will be smaller than the flat pattern and size up accordingly.

I like making practice templates out of paper to check the sizing, especially with non-standard shapes.

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Dear Constant Reader,

Happy Friday! I’m sure everyone is besieged with Black Friday deals today. However, Christina Manuge of Manuge et Toi Design inspired this tip:

You don’t have to discount your work, just because everyone else is doing so.

And please support small and local businesses this holiday season!

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Dear Constant Reader,

Happy Friday everyone! I am back from Stripper’s Holiday and I learned so much! Full report coming eventually… but for now here’s one of my top takeaways! Not so much of a tip as an exercise:

Take a look at your lines. Where is the eye drawn? Is that where you want a gaze to rest? How do you make sure the audience looks where you want?

Get in front of a mirror and play around until you figure it out.

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Dear Constant Reader,

A very happy Friday to you! I am currently in Las Vegas at Michelle L’amour’s Stripper’s Holiday, but I wouldn’t forget your tip!

If you spill glitter, use a vacuum to clean it up.

Don’t use a broom or a mop. They’re just going to push glitter into all the cracks and you’ll never get rid of it all.

And I’m talking about if you accidentally spill your craft or cosmetic glitter. I don’t mean glitter pours — you shouldn’t be doing those on stage in the first place. They look great, but annoy the venue and your fellow performers.

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