Friday Tip

Dear Constant Reader,

Happy Friday! Here’s your tip!

It’s my birthday! Treat yourself today! And maybe some others too.

It’s become traditional to create birthday fundraisers, but I’m not going to be so formal. If you are feeling generous, please consider contributing a little something to a good cause today. These are some of my favorites, if you are so inclined. They’re all 501(c)(3) non-profits, so you’ll be doing good and can take it off your taxes. : -)

The Diane Fossey Gorilla Fund
Panthera
Zoo New England
MSPCA-Angell
Plimoth Patuxet
The American Burlesque Collection

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Published in: on 19 February 2021 at 11:00 am  Comments (2)  
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Friday Tip

Dear Constant Reader,

It’s Friday and Valentine’s Day is just around the corner! Quick commercial, I’m appearing this Saturday at 9pm on Velvet Revue in their Heartbreaker Showcase.

Here’s a seasonal quote to liven up your day:

“Love is a friendship set to music.”
–Joseph Campbell

I love the imagery; It makes me think of life as a dance. Have a beautiful week!

M2These writings and other creative projects are supported by my 14 Patrons. Thank you so much! To become a Patron, go to my Patreon page. Or you can just tip me if you liked this.

Published in: on 12 February 2021 at 2:19 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Creating Choreography for BABE

Dear Constant Reader,

True confession time. I do not like creating choreography. It doesn’t come easily to me and it’s not particularly fun. However, it’s a good teaching tool and students seem to like learn routines as much (if not more) as building skills. How about a peek behind the curtain of my process for the new one I’m teaching on Thursday?

A choreography for teaching is very different than one for performing. I want something easy enough to teach in a limited time, but still challenge the students, have a variety of moves/skills, incorporate modifications as necessary, and be fun. The one in question also needs to evoke Valentine’s Day.

Because I don’t enjoy creating choreography, I dawdle and dally and then have to scramble madly. This time,  I vowed to have my shapely butt in gear and make Valen-Tease a quality class without making myself crazy. It didn’t hurt that a whole bunch of students registered as soon as the class was announced. (Want in? There’s still room.)

I set a deadline of having the whole thing completed by the Sunday before the class (this past Sunday) so I could show it to the BeauTease and get feedback. I had a concept, which is what I announced — a sensual striptease out of a robe, stockings and heels, done partially on a bed or couch. Then I needed music that would fit the bill; something it the 3-minute range, since I have just an hour to teach. Scratch made some suggestions, one of which inspired me to use a different song by the same artist.

Song acquired, I broke it down into sections and sketched out my ideas for each part. Then I got into costume and tried it out. And changed things, and tried again, and changed things, again and again, until something solid and reproducible emerged. It’s a tedious process. At least for me.

At last I had something I was wiling to show other people.  As luck would have it, our in-person rehearsal was moved on-line because of the snowstorm, so I could show the troupe from the room where I would be teaching. They gave me some feedback and made some suggestions based on my demonstration. Then we all did it together and gave me some more thoughts.

A little more work and it’s ready for class on Thursday! Except that I’ll probably make a few tweaks while teaching, since no choreography survives contact with students.

Perhaps you’ll join me….

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Published in: on 9 February 2021 at 4:05 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Friday Tip

Dear Constant Reader,

Before we begin, a quick reminder that I’m offering Valen-Tease on next Thursday.

Here’s your tip!

Yell out your anger and frustration.

We’re all feeling it at some level, having our lives interrupted for almost a year, unable to do things we love, see people we love, and seeing so much loss. So just go yell and shout and scream. Lock yourself in the bathroom, or your car, go into the back yard, lie on your bed with a pillow to muffle your voice. You could even throw things if it would help (and not incur any property damage). Externalize your feelings.

This tip inspired by Michelle L’amour’s honest talk about anger and The NY Times “Primal Scream Line” for overwhelmed mothers.

M2These writings and other creative projects are supported by my 14 Patrons. Thank you so much! To become a Patron, go to my Patreon page. Or you can just tip me if you liked this.

Published in: on 5 February 2021 at 2:38 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Friday Tip

Dear Constant Reader,

It’s Friday! Before we get down to your tip, some announcements: 
•  Introduction to Burlesque starts on Wednesday!
•  On Feb. 11, I’m offering Valen-Tease, a striptease routine for a special Valentine’s Day (or night).
•  In case you missed it, a video to accompany yesterday’s recipe is available to supporters on Patreon.

And now for your tip!

For more hair volume, use a rat.

Not a squeaky rodent, padding for your hairstyle!  Rats are usually tubes or donut shapes of foam covered with mesh, tinted to match many hair colors. If you don’t quite have enough hair (like me!) to create a big style, arrange your hair over the rat to plump out your ‘do. Just make sure you cover the entire form with your hair. They’re good for buns, rolls, bumper bangs, and the like. You can get rats at drugstores and beauty supply places.

For a historically authentic rat, use your own hair. What? you may be asking. Didn’t you just say to use rats when you don’t have enough hair? From at least the Victorian era (if not earlier) through to the early 20th century, women would save the loose hair from their brushes and stuff it into little nets to make rats that would match their hair color perfectly.

To save the hair, they used hair receivers, basically a jar with a hole in the lid in which to stuff your brushings. Hair receivers are very pretty since they were kept out on the dressing table, usually with a matching powder jar. I’ve collected a few…

This was the first dresser set I found, glass jars with some kind of early plastic tops, probably celluloid (I doubt they’re Bakelite, but I haven’t tested). I keep hair brushings in the receiver, as one does, and dried roses from Judith Stein in the powder jar.

This set is probably from the 1930s. It’s made of French ivory, a kind of celluloid. Not seen in this photo is a matching brush set, manicure tools, and a hand mirror.

This is my favorite set, which is Noritake hand painted china. Based on the backmark, I think it was manufactured sometime in the 1920s, definitely pre-War. I’m still trying to identify the pattern. Any Noritake fans out there?
The footed dish may have been for hairpins, but I use it to hold my everyday jewelry while I sleep. There is dusting powder and a powder puff in the powder jar, as there should be, but I usually use the hair receiver to hold my hatpins until such a time as I get a proper hatpin holder.

M2These writings and other creative projects are supported by my 11 Patrons. Thank you so much! To become a Patron, go to my Patreon page. Or you can just tip me if you liked this.

Published in: on 29 January 2021 at 12:53 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Friday Tip

Dear Constant Reader,

B.A.B.E. had the first of two comedy workshops last night. There’s still time to register for the second one —Developing Comedy Acts  — on the 28th.

And here’s your tip!

Watch that you don’t block your face during your removes.

It’s usually a glove remove that’s causes the problem, but I’ve seen it happen with stockings too. 

M2These writings and other creative projects are supported by my 11 Patrons. Thank you so much, especially my newest Patron, Coney Bow! To become a Patron, go to my Patreon page. Or you can just tip me if you liked this.

Published in: on 22 January 2021 at 3:21 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Friday Tip

Dear Constant Reader,

Just a quick note — B.A.B.E.’s workshop series on burlesque comedy starts on Thursday. Enrollment is limited and there are only a few spaces left! Go to studyburlesque.com/workshops to sign up.

Here’s your lip, I mean, tip!

Use two colors of lipstick to change the appearance of your lips.

After you apply your usual lipstick, use a second color to change the emphasis.

For a fuller-looking lip, use a paler color in the center of your lip. Be sure to blend it well around the edges so there’s a natural looking gradation of color.

To create a flapper-stype pout, use a darker color lipstick to fill in the cupid’s bow area of your lips. Don’t blend this one; you want it well-defined.

M2These writings and other creative projects are supported by my 10 Patrons. Thank you so much! To become a Patron, go to my Patreon page. Or you can just tip me if you liked this.

Published in: on 15 January 2021 at 2:46 pm  Leave a Comment  
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2020 in Review

Dear Constant Reader,

2020 was a very hard year, as it was for all of us. There were a few bright spots, here and there, but mostly it was one challenge after another. I’m going to try to focus on the positive.

January
Scratch reintroduces Taste O’ Burlesque, a burlesque “open stage” and light-hearted competition. The troupe  bookends the competition section and I get to do my David Bowie number. The show goes over so well, the venue suggests a monthly event. Scratch wisely counters with every couple of months.

On a personal note, I make a close to last-minute trip to see my mother for her birthday (and see her in a play). In hindsight, I’m so glad I insisted on coming down, because my planned trip in April for my father’s birthday will be canceled.

February
We perform a Valentine’s Day show at Deacon Giles. It’s so much fun, as usual. Little do I know it’s the last time I’ll set foot in the Speakeasy Lab until the last day of December.

My doting mother and Scratch team up to give me the most amazing Broadway birthday celebration in NYC.  Looking now at the dark theatres, I am beyond grateful to have seen two remarkable shows that day.

March
We open the month with the second installment of Taste o’ Burlesque. I give Guilted Lilly a basket I made for her woodland frolics and she gives me a big hug. I don’t realize at the time, but it’s the last hug I’ll have from someone outside my household.

Then the world shuts down. I close B.A.B.E. for the rest of the month. Brown Paper Tickets stops paying anybody and owes the Academy a bunch of money. The Expo team tries to figure out what to do about the event, which is supposed to happen next month. The inaugural RVA Burlesque Festival, at which I was to perform, is postponed a year.

I record a reading of The Masque of the Red Death for my Patrons.

April
I re-open B.A.B.E. virtually, offering the March and April students their lessons on-line. It’s a learning curve, both technologically and pedagogically. I also start offering free mini-lessons on IG Live. And I record another story: Dracula’s Guest.

May
We release our first virtual show Live(ish) from Deacon Giles (sort of)!. It’s weird, performing at home for a camera. I also appear on Booklover’s Burlesque reading a selection from a just-published novella written by a friend of mine.

June
I am very quiet in June. Too many things bigger than burlesque are happening.

July
I am running (and mostly teaching) workshops twice a week at B.A.B.E. It’s kind of exhausting. Also I dive deeply into a bit of forgotten burlesque history and make some exciting discoveries.

August
We release The Underwear Academy. B.A.B.E. takes a break. I spend a lot of time helping set up a museum

September
The American Burlesque Collection opens! 

October
We release H.A.U.N.T. (Here’s Another “Unprecedented” Night of Theatre), our Halloween show. I sit for a virtual photoshoot with La Photographie. My editing skills get so much better as I struggle though making a video about cooking this mid-century delight.

November
It’s BurlyCon time! I teach (and create a recorded version of one of my classes), take classes, participate in a master-level scene study and some community events. I miss seeing people. I miss traveling.

December
I appear in three shows! All of them virtual… The BeauTease Holiday Special is filmed at The Manor and we have a lot of fun. It’s almost like a party, even if everyone who’s not on camera is masked and keeping their distance (it’s a big house). I also appear in two shows on Velvet Revue.

In a year of turmoil and tragedy, I felt stuck and stagnant. It’s good to look back and see some accomplishments.

M2These writings and other creative projects are supported by my Patrons. Thank you so much! To become a Patron, go to my Patreon page. Or you can just tip me if you liked this.

Published in: on 13 January 2021 at 10:56 am  Leave a Comment  
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Friday Tip

Dear Constant Reader,

It’s Friday again! Here’s your tip! Lighting has become so important as we spend so much time in front of cameras.

Soften harsh lights with a diffuser.

The theatrical solution would be to use a diffusing gel, but if you don’t happen to have one of those lying around, you can improvise. If you’re using an LED bulb, it doesn’t get hot and there’s lot of things you can use to put in front of the bulb to get a softer light– sheer fabric, a stocking, wax paper, &c. In a pinch we once used a white trash bag over a LED worklight.

If you are using a bulb that gets hot, be very careful with what you put in front of it. You don’t want anything to melt or burn. Baking parchment paper is a safe solution (thanks to Foxy Lexxi for the suggestion!).

Experiment with lights and materials to find an effect you like. 

M2These writings and other creative projects are supported by my Patrons. Thank you so much! To become a Patron, go to my Patreon page. Or you can just tip me if you liked this.

Published in: on 8 January 2021 at 11:00 am  Leave a Comment  
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Friday Tip

Dear Constant Reader,

Happy New Year! May 2021 be better and brighter for all of us! (but no pressure…)

Often I suggest setting goals for the new year, but 2020 was a *really* rough year. Instead:

Look back on all your accomplishments, no matter how small. I bet you accomplished more than you think!

Stay well everyone! I hope we can be together again this year.

M2These writings and other creative projects are supported by my Patrons. Thank you so much! To become a Patron, go to my Patreon page. Or you can just tip me if you liked this.

Published in: on 1 January 2021 at 11:34 am  Leave a Comment  
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