Friday Tip

Dear Constant Reader,

Happy Friday! We’re just one week from Not Just Sitting Pretty: Intro to Acro Chair Flow with visiting instructor Kerri N’Fuego and I can’t wait. And that brings me to this week’s tip…

Try a new skill.

If you have the opportunity to try something new, take it! (like acro chair…) You never know if it’s something you might use in a future act or you might just think is fun. Even if you decide it’s not for you, you’ve still had a learning experience.

I once took a class on rope tricks (yeah, like spinning a lasso). Not something I’m probably ever going to use, but now I have an appreciation for the skill of those who do it and make it look easy. And who knows, there might be a situation where I can use or share the knowledge I gained.

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Published in: on 9 May 2025 at 2:01 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Friday Tip

Dear Constant Reader,

Happy Friday! B.A.B.E.’s second Student Showcase is this Sunday and I’ve heard that there are only 4 tickets left!

So many classes in May: Introduction to Burlesque with me, Floorwork with Devastasia, Intro to Acro Chair with Kerri N’Fuego, and Shimmy at the Speakeasy in Salem.

Onward to your tip…

Posture check!

I’m talking to you (and me)! Are you hunching, slouching, shrimping, or otherwise sitting or standing with poor posture?

Stand up. Straighten your spine. Roll your shoulders down and back. Lift your chest. Pull in your core. 

Now, don’t you feel better? You look better too.

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Published in: on 2 May 2025 at 2:59 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Friday Tip

Dear Constant Reader,

I am so excited for the B.A.B.E. student showcase tomorrow! I’m doing a little last minute costuming, which brought this tip to mind…

Keep the humidity in mind when working on a project.

Ah, humidity! The bane of summer — frizzy hair, runny makeup, sticky costumes… and slower drying times. If you’re painting or gluing or dying something, just remember that it’s going to take longer to dry. Factor that into your timeline along with everything else.

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Published in: on 25 April 2025 at 2:28 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Friday Tip

Dear Constant Reader,

Happy Friday! I recently spent a couple of days in New York (but that’s a separate missive) and found myself in the Garment District with some time to kill, which brings me to your tip.

Keep a wish list for impromptu shopping.

You never know when you’re going to find yourself in a fabric store or a thrift shop or some other emporium of goodies that might have some component for a project or an act or a costume. Are you going to remember what it was you wanted?

Thus, a list, not only of the items, but quantities or sizes. I used to keep my list on paper in my wallet, but now I just have it on my phone. That’s how, when I saw the rhinestone zippers, I could confidently buy a 7″ zipper to replace the boring one on my NYE gown.

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Published in: on 18 April 2025 at 3:59 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Friday Tip

Dear Constant Reader,

We’ve got so many exciting events coming up at B.A.B.E. — student showcases! acro chair workshop! floorwork classes! I can’t wait!

And now for your tip!

You are the only one who knows your choreography.

This is a tip I like to give students creating a burlesque solo. When you are performing, if you forget something, miss a cue, or otherwise deviate from your intended routine, the audience will never know unless you tell them.

So, don’t break character or show panic or annoyance on your face or in your body language. Keep that inside (no matter how hard that may be) and go on your merry way with confidence until the well-earned applause at the end.

M2These writings and other creative projects are supported by my 19 Patrons. Thank you so much! To become a Patron, go to my Patreon page. Or you can just tip me if you liked this.These writings and other creative projects are supported by my 19 Patrons. Thank you so much! To become a Patron, go to my Patreon page. Or you can just tip me if you liked this.

Published in: on 11 April 2025 at 1:05 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Friday Tip

Dear Constant Reader,

It’s Friday! I don’t know about the rest of you, but things have been stressful and uncertain for many of the people I know and care about. This week’s tip is:

Go out and enjoy the nice weather.

As spring has sprung, I find spending even a little time in the fresh air can really help me relax and stop fretting. As the weather gets more pleasant, I’ll start having breakfast outside and carry a little of that pleasure into the morning. I hope this works for you too.

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Published in: on 4 April 2025 at 5:43 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Friday Tip

Dear Constant Reader,

Happy Friday! It’s starting to feel like spring out there.

When working with glittery fabric, store the fabric and any resulting garments away from, well, everything else.

It will shed glitter, but by keeping it separated, with a storage box or bag, you can minimize the mess.

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Published in: on 28 March 2025 at 5:03 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Friday Tip

Dear Constant Reader,

It’s Friday again. Given my druthers, this is not a tip I would choose to write, or would even conceived of before this year. We’re getting into high season for festivals and…

Maybe don’t come to the US.

If you live outside the United States, this might not be the best time to visit.

There’ve been plenty of incidents in the past with burlesquers being refused entry, usually because they were suspected of coming here to work. The repercussions these days could be a heck of a lot more drastic than just being turned away at immigration. We’ll miss you, but stay safe.

Sorry for the downer, but it’s scary out there.

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Published in: on 21 March 2025 at 11:00 am  Leave a Comment  
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Friday Tip

Dear Constant Reader,

Happy Friday! Here’s your tip!

Check your elastic before you sew with it.

Old elastic loses its, well, elasticity. Check your stash and make sure nothing has gotten crunchy or stretched out. If so, you should toss it. Get some fresh elastic so your garment has a long, useful life after you’ve gone to all the work of sewing it.

If this happens with a costume piece or even regular clothing, see if you can replace the elastic without completely deconstructing the item. If it has a casing, that makes an easy fix.

I make my g-strings in such a way that the elastic is incredibly easy to remove and replace (like 5 minutes easy). You too can learn how from my Little Costuming Book or Patreon-exclusive tutorial.

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Published in: on 14 March 2025 at 4:23 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Friday Tip

Dear Constant Reader,

Happy Friday! It’s so windy here at The Manor. It makes me terribly sympathetic to my Australian friends expecting Cyclone Alfred. Stay safe!

I’m currently testing a pattern for a designer and it made me think of this tip:

When working with interfacing, whether it’s fusible or not, make sure you catch it in the seam stitching to secure it, then trim away any excess to reduce bulk before you press the seam.

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Published in: on 7 March 2025 at 4:36 pm  Leave a Comment  
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