Friday Tip

Dear Constant Reader,

It’s been pretty cold here. I hope where ever you are, you’re keeping warm! Or cool, for my friends in the other hemisphere.

Today’s tip is about keeping warm, or really, not so warm.

Keep your hot showers short.

Like most of you, I love to relax in a hot shower, especially when it’s cold out or to ease sore muscles. However, the hot water can dry out your skin. Counterintuitive, right? If your skin is red when you get out, you haven’t done it any favors.

I’ve seen some dermatologists say you should only keep the water really hot for about five minutes, or about the time it takes to fog up the mirror. Most of your bathing should be done in warm water and then use some lotion after you gently towel off.

A reward for your virtue, here is my bathing ritual…

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Published in: on 21 February 2025 at 11:55 am  Leave a Comment  
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Friday Tip

Dear Constant Reader,

Happy Valentine’s Day! I hope to see you in the audience at True Lust tonight!  When February 14th falls on a Friday, I like to share a quote about love:

Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope. — Maya Angelou

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Published in: on 14 February 2025 at 12:26 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Friday Tip

Dear Constant Reader,

It’s the first tip of February! This winter has been a lot already and there’s more to get through. I was reminded just the other day of this piece of wisdom.

Whether you believe you see the darkness or the light, you’re right. — Groundhog Day proverb via Breaking Cat News

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Published in: on 7 February 2025 at 3:17 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Shimmy at the Speakeasy 1/26/25

Dear Constant Reader,

As you know, if you’ve been a Constant Reader for a while, we have a long-standing relationship with Deacon Giles Distillery and Speakeasy Lab in Salem. In fact, our next show is February 14th! After our shows I often get asked if I teach anywhere on the North Shore. So, we decided to give it a try!

I created a new routine, something I could teach in two hours to complete beginners. This, as always, was a challenge. Choreography is not something that comes quickly or easily to me. I wanted to give the students something fun, yet easy to learn. Something that would let them sample a variety of moves and still make sense with the music.

Because it’s January and Valentine’s Day is not far off, I picked “I’ve Got My Love to Keep Me Warm”. Then I needed to pick a version. That’s the nice thing about standards — there are a lot to choose from. After listening for tempo, musical interest, song length, &c,  Ella Fitzgerald was the winner!

I had the basic outline and was filling in the specifics, but got stumped during the instrumental section. I wanted to use the boas there (we were wearing boas like scarves with winter coats), but the music was very jazzy (no surprise) and I couldn’t come up with something that wasn’t too complicated to learn in the short time we had. Scratch suggested I let the students improvise. Brilliant! It’s jazz, after all. So, I picked a bunch of moves to teach and let the students use them as they chose or just flirt shamelessly with their audience.

I love teaching in general, sharing my knowledge about things I am passionate about. Teaching experienced burlesque performers is its own kind of joy. We have a shared vocabulary and experience, so I can use some shorthand and also get pretty granular.

However, there is nothing like a group of eager novices. I adore welcoming them into the world of burlesque and watching their excitement as they see what they can do. Everyone who came to the workshop was enthusiastic and engaged. Two hours absolutely flew by!

Shimmy at the SpeakeasyThe fabulous students!

One of my mottos is “no choreography survives contact with reality”. I’m prepared to change things on the fly if something doesn’t work when students are actually doing it. That’s my error, not theirs.  So I was delighted that everything went as writ. *pats self on back*

All in all, I was very pleased with how the workshop went and hope to do some more in the coming months. Big thanks to everyone at Deacon Giles who made it possible!

M2These writings and other creative projects are supported by my 19 Patrons. Thank you so much! To become a Patron, go to my Patreon page. Or you can just tip me if you liked this.

Published in: on 5 February 2025 at 1:31 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Friday Tip

Dear Constant Reader,

It’s Friday again! I’m excited for my upcoming class, ValenTease, starting Monday, and our upcoming show, True Lust, on February 14. What are you excited for?

Here’s your tip:

If you’re in a show (or similar situation) and something you do (or failed to do) causes a problem. Accept responsibility and work with other folks to solve the problem.

Don’t try to deflect blame. Don’t leave it to others to fix the problem. Learn from the situation so it doesn’t happen again.

M2These writings and other creative projects are supported by my 19 Patrons. Thank you so much! To become a Patron, go to my Patreon page. Or you can just tip me if you liked this.

Published in: on 31 January 2025 at 2:31 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Friday Tip

Dear Constant Reader,

January has been a rough month for many, so today’s tip is:

Do something nice for yourself. And then do something nice for someone else.

M2These writings and other creative projects are supported by my 19 Patrons. Thank you so much! To become a Patron, go to my Patreon page. Or you can just tip me if you liked this.

Published in: on 24 January 2025 at 1:39 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Friday Tip

Dear Constant Reader,

Today’s tip was inspired by the great David Lynch. “She’s dead, wrapped in plastic.”

Do not store your costumes in dry cleaning bags.

If you were obsessed by Twin Peaks, as I was, I hope you thought fondly of that iconic line.

Dry cleaning bags are just supposed to provide temporary protection to get your clothes home safely. Used long term, they can cause discoloration, especially yellowing, and can trap moisture. Don’t kill your costumes…

You’re much better off ditching the bag once you get home (and taking it somewhere that recycles plastic film) and storing your costume wrapped in a fabric made of natural fiber, like cotton.

M2These writings and other creative projects are supported by my 19 Patrons. Thank you so much! To become a Patron, go to my Patreon page. Or you can just tip me if you liked this.

Published in: on 17 January 2025 at 5:41 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Friday Tip

Dear Constant Reader,

It’s Friday again! How’s your year going so far?

This is a great time to…

Organize your costume closet!

Pull everything out and decide what still suits you and what can be sold, remade, or given away. Decide if your current organizational system is working for you and if it’s not, try something new. Then put everything away and congratulate yourself!

M2These writings and other creative projects are supported by my 19 Patrons. Thank you so much! To become a Patron, go to my Patreon page. Or you can just tip me if you liked this.

Published in: on 10 January 2025 at 3:18 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Friday Tip

Dear Constant Reader,

Happy New Year! I hope 2025 is a good one for you!

Often early in the new year we look forward by making resolutions (which I don’t care for) or set ting goals (which I do). I’m going to suggest a look backward for today’s tip:

Look at what you’ve accomplished over the past year.

Every month I write up a summary of my activity for my Patrons, so they can see what they’re been supporting. In January I sum up the entire year and I’m often quite amazed at how much I did. Give it a try — I suspect you’ll be amazed too.

M2These writings and other creative projects are supported by my 19 Patrons. Thank you so much! To become a Patron, go to my Patreon page. Or you can just tip me if you liked this.

Published in: on 3 January 2025 at 3:56 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Friday Tip

Dear Constant Reader,

As we reach the end of the year, I am so grateful for all of you who follow my creative endeavors — here, at the Kitchen Cabinet Project, in print, on Patreon, on YouTube, and in real life.

One of my barre instructors ends every class with…

Expect nothing; appreciate everything.

which I think is a nice thought on which to end the year.

M2These writings and other creative projects are supported by my 19 Patrons. Thank you so much! To become a Patron, go to my Patreon page. Or you can just tip me if you liked this.

Published in: on 27 December 2024 at 11:00 am  Leave a Comment  
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