Friday Tip

Dear Constant Reader,

Happy Friday!

Quick note from B.A.B.E. before I get to your tip. Classes resume in January. Introduction to Burlesque classes will be at Tony Williams Dance Center, as they’ve been for the past year, but in February we’re moving to the Asylum CoLab at Faneuil Hall. We are excited about that! However, we’re less excited that we have to raise our prices for classes. We’ve kept the same rates for 15 years, but they’ll be going up a little in February. If you want to save a little, take classes in January — and sign up before New Year’s Day to get the Early Bird discount!

Okay, here’s your tip.

Claim your name (stage name, troupe, and/or school name) on as many platforms as you can.

Even if you’re not planning on using them right now, it’s a good idea to stake your claim. The reason I’m “miss_mina_murray” on IG is because someone else grabbed “missminamurray” first — and she’s a cat. Having consistent user names is the best, if you can manage it. B.A.B.E. is “StudyBurlesque” everywhere that we have a presence.

However…

Don’t be a jerk. No squatting!

That is, don’t grab a domain or user name that you know someone else might want and just sit on it so that they can’t have it. It’s petty. Although I know that you’d never do something like that, dear reader.

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Published in: on 23 December 2022 at 2:42 pm  Leave a Comment  
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In the Kitchen: Hot Spiced Milk (1948)

Dear Constant Reader,

There’s a FB group to which I belong where one person has been sharing daily menus from The Modern Family Cook Book by Meta Givens (1948) for the past couple of years. I even got my own copy of the book to check out the recipes. Then last year I jumped into the game to share Fannie Farmer menus and it’s been fun to compare the two generations of cooking. Some of Meta’s recipes are off-putting — a lot of vegetables covered with white or cheese sauce, a lack of seasoning, plenty of organ meats — but some grabbed my fancy and I’ve given them a whirl.

One of the recipes I tried was Hot Spiced Milk. It was so good that I’ve made it a few times. My cozy winter drink of choice is hot chocolate, so it’s saying something that I like this, sans any chocolate.

You need
IMG_0626butter, coconut, milk, cinnamon, nutmeg, and honey

Hot Spiced Milk
1/4 cup shredded coconut
1 tablespoon butter
4 cups milk
1/2 teaspoon cinnamon
1/2 teaspoon nutmeg
2 tablespoons honey

Melt the butter and brown the coconut in it. Then add all the other ingredients and heat until scalding (180°F). Strain out the coconut and serve. If you want to leave the coconut in, chop finely before browning.

Serves 4.

This works best with whole milk, but there no reason not to use a plant-based milk, if that’s your preference.

I usually use unsweetened coconut, but sweetened coconut will probably brown better. It will also make the drink sweeter, so you might want to adjust the honey.

I suppose you could toast the coconut without any butter, but you’d loose that little bit of extra richness.

It’s lovely on a winter evening with some cookies!

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Published in: on 20 December 2022 at 3:40 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Friday Tip

Dear Constant Reader,

It’s a blustery Friday here in Boston and I was trying to come up with a tip that suited the weather, but instead the chaos that is my sewing room/office/video recording and editing studio inspired this.

When facing a big task,  break it down into tiny ones.

Looking at a big project can be daunting, but making it a series of much smaller projects can help a lot. You know what they say about how to eat an elephant — one bite at a time.

You could make detailed to do lists. For example, if I’m making a new costume, I’ll start by listing every costume component, and then writing down every step for each one. Sometimes it can get pretty granular if I need the motivation of more things to check off the list. “Prep fabric” could be one item, or it could be broken down to “buy fabric”, “wash fabric”, “dry fabric”, “press fabric”.

Another approach is to set a timer for a short time, like 15 minutes, but no goofing around, you have to spend all the time on the task. I find having a hard end time helps me keep focused to do as much as possible before the timer goes off.

And then there’s the number method — pick a small number of items to deal with, like put away five pairs of shoes, or answer three emails.

Have you tried any of these techniques to accomplish a big task? Do you have tricks of your own?

M2These writings and other creative projects are supported by my 17 Patrons. Thank you so much! To become a Patron, go to my Patreon page. Or you can just tip me if you liked this.

Published in: on 16 December 2022 at 4:06 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Burly Bundle Unboxing

Dear Constant Reader,

A while back I was approached by BurlyBundle, a subscription burlesque craft box, to tell my students about their product. I’m always happy to support another small woman-owned business, especially one from a fellow burlesquer. However, to make sure I could whole-heartedly endorse it, I ordered a bundle. And here’s what I found…

To sum up, this bundle has everything you need for the project, down to the smallest detail. It’s perfect for beginners, but I think it would be fun for seasoned crafters too. There are suggested designs, but one could certainly follow their muse and create an original design. Some of those tiny rhinestones will make for a challenge even for experience stoners.

My verdict: Misty Tetons has created a fine craft box. Check it out yourself — the ordering cut off for the next bundle is the end of this month.

(This review is not sponsored, suggested, or requested by anyone. I have no affiliation with Burly Bundle other than as a one-time customer.)

M2These writings and other creative projects are supported by my 17 Patrons. Thank you so much! To become a Patron, go to my Patreon page. Or you can just tip me if you liked this.

Published in: on 15 December 2022 at 5:20 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Friday Tip

Dear Constant Reader,

It’s Friday again! It’s also the closing weekend of the ScroogeCo. Holiday Office Party, our fun, interactive show at Chelsea Theatre Works. I hope you’ll join us!

I taught chair dance to the intermediate students at B.A.B.E. last month and that inspired your tip.

Add specialty feet to your chair.

Depending on how you’re going to be using your chair, you have a couple of options, all of which you can get at the hardware store.

If you want to make sure the chair doesn’t slip out from under you, add rubber feet. They slide over the legs and provide traction.

If you are going to be moving the chair around, use furniture glides. They’re plastic or felt disks that nail or stick onto the feet and let the chair move smoothly and with less noise.

M2These writings and other creative projects are supported by my 17 Patrons. Thank you so much! To become a Patron, go to my Patreon page. Or you can just tip me if you liked this

 

Published in: on 9 December 2022 at 3:33 pm  Leave a Comment  
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New Fans (sort of)

Dear Constant Reader,

I’ve not been the best of correspondents of late and for that I am sorry. I just haven’t had the inspiration to write. Today I realized that I never told you about my white fans.

If you’ve seen me perform, you’ve probably seen my white feather fans. I commissioned them from The Scarlett Rose (who also made my black and white ones) and first performed with them in V for Vixen in December 2009.

They had single white plumes on bamboo staves. Back then your choices for fan staves were bamboo or acrylic (probably from Ostrich.com). My hands are small, so I was very happy for the bamboo, which is lighter and sat better in my hand. She painted the staves white, then covered the front and back staves with a single piece of white trim which made a carrying loop. As a finally touch, she decorated that trim with rhinestones. I added more rhinestones to the shafts of the front plumes.

Ugly Duckling Fan DanceThis photo by Charles Jones, from my Ugly Duckling fan dance during Bumps Upon a Grind is one of my favorites.

I used those fans a lot over the years. I lost the nut on one pair and couldn’t find a replacement the right size, so I had to replace the whole bolt and it was too long. One of the staves cracked and I mended it with cloth tape. The fancy trim got grimy from my hands.

This year I finally decided to take the plunge and have Donna Touch upgrade them. Fan tech has come a long way since 2009 and bamboo or acrylic are no longer the only options. Donna makes staves from light-weight aluminum and powder coats them pretty much any color you could want. She carefully removed the plumes, which were glued to the staves, and moved them over to white aluminum staves and added another row of feathers. Check out her fine work here.

I debuted them at Burlesque with a Band in February. Here they are in action!

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They’re quite a bit bigger now and slightly heavier, but so full and lush!

The slick aluminum staves took a little getting used to after the rougher bamboo, as did the new size. After using them for most of the year now they’re an extension of my hands again, 

rhinestones backI was missing the rhinestone decorations that The Scarlett Rose had done (I removed the bits of trim before I sent the fans to Donna), but the fronts of these staves are almost completely covered with feathers. However, the stave backs were bare. I pavéd them with rhinestones (from Looking Glass Gems) and continued up the feather shaft. The picture doesn’t capture how sparkly they actually are! (The gaps are for the holes where the wire is securing the feathers to the stave.) (And my feathers need a steam.)

So, a brief bit of real talk — a conversation I have with my students frequently — fans are an investment. I paid quite a bit for the original custom-made set in 2009 and twice that for the conversion in 2022. Now, I used the original set for 12 years and I’ve used the new version in most of my shows this year, so I don’t begrudge any of the expense. However, I hate to see new dancers take the plunge and then discover fan dancing isn’t for them.

That said, I would recommend Donna’s fans for any serious fan dancer. They’re light, they’re strong, and they’re beautifully made. I’m dreaming of a set of her boa fans. Maybe some day…

M2

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Published in: on 7 December 2022 at 5:22 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Friday Tip

Dear Constant Reader,

It’s Friday again!

This week’s tip is something Jo Weldon said recently and really stuck with me. I’m paraphrasing:

Burlesque is a dialog between performer and audience. Give them time to react before you go on to the next moment in your act.

M2

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Published in: on 2 December 2022 at 4:14 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Real Talk About the Performing Arts

Dear Constant Reader,

This was sent out to the BeauTease mailing list yesterday. I thought it was worth sharing here too.

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TL/DR: Donate to support us or buy a ticket to the ScroogeCo Holiday Office Party


We are usually full of happiness and good cheer – especially at this time of year – but the truth is, the performing arts are in trouble.  Sure, there a few exceptional bright spots, but if you ask any artist working in Boston, they’ll tell you that things aren’t good and haven’t been for a long time.

When ArtsBoston created the Audience Outlook Monitor (AOM), their takeaway was

The pandemic has been devastating for arts organizations hit from all sides. The survey proves what we know arts organizations and artists are already grappling with — it’s going to be a long road back and it won’t be an easy one.

Sadly, we’re not one of those exceptions.  The BeauTease have been around for 17 years.  We’re New England’s longest-running burlesque troupe.  We have trained and inspired dozens of performers around the country and the world.  We’d like to be around for another 17 years…but that’s not going to happen without your help.

We know it’s Giving Tuesday and you’re being bombarded from all sides with requests for donations.  Thanks to our partnership with The Professional Burlesque Society, we are able to take donations and truly appreciate anyone who chooses to make one, but we’d much rather see you at a show.

The ScroogeCo Holiday Office Party opens on this Friday, December 2, and has performances on December 2-4 and 8-10 at The Chelsea Theatre Works.  Tickets make great gifts and this show in particular is perfect for big groups.  It’s equal parts party and performance, so come on out and dance the night away with us!

xoxo,

BeauTease Burlesque

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M2

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Published in: on 30 November 2022 at 2:44 pm  Leave a Comment  

Friday Tip

Dear Constant Reader,

Starting this Friday you can see The BeauTease and friends and apprentices in The ScroogeCo Holiday Office Party. It’s not one of our typical theatre shows, but an evening of interactive fun. Join the party to celebrate the merger of ScroogeCo and KKringle Inc! There will be games, holiday music, drinks at the bar, singing, dancing, magic and of course, burlesque. The show is Dec. 2-4 and 8-10. Tickets are available now.

Now for your tip!

If you have pets, make sure precious things like boas, fans, D’Lish robes, rhinestoned shoes, &c. are kept secured when you aren’t actively using them.

As the Martha Stewart of Burlesque, I’m often asked what to do when a cat pees on a costume or a dog chews on Pleasers. Prevention is key! I admit that I need to take my own advice. Albert A. Cat was such a restrained gentleman that I got lazy and left things lying around because I knew he’d leave them in peace, no matter how many feathers they had (and he did love feathers). With young Bartholomew, the world is his toybox and I have had to be more vigilant.

M2

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Published in: on 25 November 2022 at 3:05 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Friday Tip

Dear Constant Reader,

It’s Friday again and I am back in Boston after a grand time in Seattle. I’ll tell you all about it, but, given my track record, it’s going to take some time.

This tip is based on my recent travels:

To save time and money when you travel, pack your own food.

This is particularly useful when you’re going to be in a hotel and there isn’t much around, like many conventions. Rather than pay hotel prices or take the time to go far afield for meals, I pack stuff for breakfast and lunch (and then splurge on dinner). Since most hotel rooms have coffee makers, there’s hot water, so I pack instant oatmeal (Trader Joe’s makes a sea salt & cocoa oatmeal that’s a treat) and soup cups (TJ’s used to carry cups of fresh noodles that were supposed to be heated, but were also good cold). If your accommodations have a microwave, you have even more options. I also bring fresh fruit, like apples or oranges, baby carrots, protein bars, and trail mix.

Not only are you saving money (so you can buy goodies from the vendors), but you have more room in your suitcase on the trip home (in which to pack the aforementioned goodies).

M2

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Published in: on 18 November 2022 at 3:49 pm  Leave a Comment  
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