Friday Tip

Dear Constant Reader,

Here we are — Friday again! How does that keep happening?

Here’s your tip!

When working with stretchy fabric, stretch it before applying decorations.

If you stretch the fabric to the size it will be when you’re wearing it, your decorations will lie flat. I like to pin flat fabric to my ironing board and use a form for things like gloves or garters (a one liter soda bottle works nicely!). If you’re gluing rhinestones, make sure there’s plastic or a silicone mat under the fabric, so the glue doesn’t stick to your work surface or another section of the garment.

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Published in: on 14 August 2020 at 2:50 pm  Leave a Comment  
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The Story of Buddy Wade

Dear Constant Reader,

As I was writing my Friday Tip about research, I was going to include an example of an uncorroborated statement and fell down one of those rabbit holes I mentioned.

On page 240 of Striptease: The Untold History of the Girlie Show, Rachel Shteir writes of strippers with tragic ends. “Buddy Wade’s tap shoes caught fire, the sparks ignited her costume, and she burned to death one night at the Old Howard in Boston. Walter Winchell wrote a column about her commemorating her courage for not getting near the other performers.”

That’s it. No footnotes. Not even the date when this event occurred. I always thought it was a little weird — her tap shoes caught fire? Boston historian David Kruh was also puzzled and contacted Ms. Shteir to ask for her sources, but she was unable to provide any.

For years, that’s where it stood. While writing the Tip, I thought I should see if I could find any confirmation before I dubbed the story fiction. I had my doubts about finding any evidence. Like everyone else, I’m stuck at home and can’t go to the library, so I had to try my luck with the Internet.

After striking out a lot, I hit on the key search word — “chorine”. From there I found an issue of The Billboard from December 26, 1936. In “Events of the Year” under the “Burlesque” section, dated January, it says “Buddy Wade, chorine, died from burns received on the stage of the Howard, Boston, a heroine in preventing spread of blaze.” Now I had confirmation of the kernel of the story, if not all the details, and better yet, a year!

Now I was able to find the Winchell column. Walter Winchell didn’t actually write about her. He published a letter from a Boston Post reporter who couldn’t get the story in his own paper. I found more information; Scratch found some too. I’m still hunting.

Here’s the story of Buddy Wade as I have pieced it together…

Mary Wandzilak was 23, a miner’s daughter from Shenandoah, Pennsylvania who started in burlesque in Philadelphia. Under the name Buddy (or Buddie) Wade, she was performing in the chorus of the Merry Maidens burlesque revue when it was booked at the Old Howard for a week. Also on the bill for that show was Countess Vanya with her “Dance of the Bats”, Chang Lee in “Dance of the Chinese Lamps” and comics Harry “Hello Jake” Fields and Hap Hyatt.

On Friday afternoon January 10, 1936, the chorus was about to go on for a ballet number, after stripper Margot Lopez. A spark fell from an arc light onto Buddy’s tulle skirt and began to burn. Rather than panic and run past her fellow dancers in their tulle skirts, she pressed against the brick wall of the proscenium and headed backstage to a place without anything flammable. With burns over most of her body, she was taken to Haymarket Relief, an outpost of Boston City Hospital. Unfortunately, she succumbed to her injuries. Before she died on January 12, she spoke to Boston Post reporter Allen Lester and supposedly asked if she had spoiled the show.

The drawing is a self-portrait, published along with her story in the Detroit Free Press.

Lester sent her story to Winchell to make sure people knew of her courage. Presumably the management of the Old Howard had no interest in having their audience know how close they came to a theatre fire and perhaps kept the story from running in the local papers. Lester mentions the “Iroquois theatre catastrophe” of 1903, which in 600 people were killed in a Chicago theatre when an arc light sparked, igniting a muslin curtain. Buddy Wade’s sacrifice may have prevented just such a tragedy in Boston.

I’m still looking for more information, like confirmation of her birth name and the date she died [EDIT 10/17/20: birth name and death date found and missive updated]. I’d also love to find a program from the Old Howard for that week. I’ll update you if I find anything new!

[UPDATE: 4/28/25: I think I found Shteir’s source: The American Burlesque Show by Irving Zeidman, page 213-14. “In 1936 Buddy Wade, a chorine at the Boston Howard, burned to death backstage when her costume caught fire. Yet, at the cost of her own life, she kept away from the rest of the cast lest their inflammable costumes also catch fire.” Note, no mention of tap shoes.]

Sources
“Countess Vanya Featured in Old Howard Burlesque.” Boston Globe, January 7, 1936, page 14.
“Girl Fatally Burned in Theatre Accident.” The Gazette and Daily (York, PA), January 13, 1936, page 1. [added 10/17/20]
Massachusetts Death Index, Volume 6, Page 414.
“The Newest Burlesque Girl Gave Her Life for the Theatre’s Oldest Tradition.” Detroit Free Press, March 8, 1936, page 106.
“Shenandoah Girl Fatally Burned.” Shamokin (PA) News-Dispatch, January 13, 1936, page 7. [added 10/17/20]
Shteir, Rachel. Striptease: The Untold History of the Girlie Show. Oxford University Press, 2004.
Winchell, Walter, “On Broadway.” Reading (PA) Times, January 15, 1936, page 8.
Zeidman, Irviing. The American Burlesque Show. Hawthorn Books, Inc., 1967. [added 4/28/25]

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Published in: on 8 July 2020 at 3:01 pm  Comments (3)  
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Friday Tip

Dear Constant Reader,

It’s Friday.

Do something.

I’m not even sure what to write today. I’ve been looking for things to do, other than attend protests. These are some suggestions I’ve found.

  • Donate. There are lots of non-profits doing good work that could use your dollars. Also protestor bail funds.
  • Contact your elected officials. A phone call is less likely to be ignored than email.
  • Support Black-owned restaurants and other businesses. I’ve seen lots of lists circulating for different cities. If you live in or near Boston, I can make some delicious recommendations.
  • Amplify the work of Black performers. See my previous missive for some suggestions.
  • Educate yourself. There are also many lists going around of excellent books. There’s also The New York Times 1619 Project.
  • All of this
  • I’m open to more suggestions.

    M2

    Published in: on 5 June 2020 at 3:54 pm  Leave a Comment  

    Amplifying Performers of Color and their Projects

    Dear Constant Reader,

    Yesterday was Blackout Tuesday on social media platforms, but instead of remaining silent (I grew up in the era of silence=death) I posted some of the projects that performers of color I know have created. Facebook made it very difficult by refusing to publish any of my posts with links. I put the links in comments, but I could see the engagement was very low.

    This is important stuff, so here it is all in one place.

    Bebe Bardot has done an amazing amount of research into the hidden history of shake dancers. She recommends to following articles as starting points:

  • A Brief History of Shake Dancing
  • A Brief History of Blackface in Burlesque
  • Screaming into the Burly Void: Why We Should Never Give Up or Shut Up
  • The Legacy of Black American Classic Burlesque
  • Blackface in Burlesque
  • More Vintage Black Burly Videos
  • Loving Classic Burlesque as a Soft Black Femme
  • If you like these, toss a little something her way
    CashApp and Venmo: $bebebardot
    Paypal: paypal.me/bebebardot

    Caramel Knowledge is hosting her show Cocktails with Caramel on June 14th! Get your tickets now.

    Until June 4th you can watch The House of Knyle at Web of Sin and tip the performers!

    Watch SHAKEDOWN, a documentary about black lesbian strip clubs, featuring Egypt BlaqueKnyle.

    Shimmy LaRoux has taken her years in advertising and product development and turned them into on-demand burlesque business classes.

    Siomai Moore created and hosts the podcast The Pastie Tapes with interviews of a diversity of burlesque performers, including Jeez Loueez, Shimmy LaRoux, Nox Falls, and Ray Gunn.

    Twirlisha Divine created and hosts the podcast Showgirl Sunday Dinner.

    RedBone makes Glam Jam, an all-natural solid glitter lotion.

    More to come! Suggestions welcome!

    M2

    Published in: on 3 June 2020 at 11:02 am  Leave a Comment  

    Performing Live(ish)

    Dear Constant Reader,

    It’s been too long since I last performed before a live audience (Taste o’ Burlesque, March 8) and even longer since I performed at The Speakeasy Lab at Deacon Giles (Valentine’s Day).

    Well, we’re back! Kinda. This Friday at 8pm Eastern join us for Live-ish From Deacon Giles (sort of)!. We’re not actually at Deacon Giles, of course and we’re not performing live, but we will be live on the chat. We miss our fans and are eager to hear from you!

    You’ll see some performances recorded at Deacon Giles, from back when we could still do that, and some brand-new acts filmed in our homes! We even have some special guests. The show is free, but we’re taking donations.

    Want to feel like you’re really there? Order some booze from Deacon Giles — they’re delivering to the North Shore and greater Boston — and have a cocktail of three with us!

    I’m looking forward to seeing you (virtually) Friday night!

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    Published in: on 27 May 2020 at 12:18 pm  Leave a Comment  
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    Friday Tip

    Dear Constant Reader,

    It’s Friday again! How do you know? Here’s a tip!

    This week your tip is from special guest contributor, Devastasia!

    Threading elastic (or whatever) through things with a bobby pin of some kind is 1000x easier than using a stupid safety pin..

    Brilliant!

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    Published in: on 15 May 2020 at 12:16 pm  Leave a Comment  
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    Friday Tip

    Dear Constant Reader,

    It’s Friday again! Time for a tip!

    All this constant hand washing is taking a toll on my skin and I’ve been going through a lot of moisturizers. How about an alternative to standard hand lotion?

    Try solid lotion.

    I love this stuff. It’s like a bar of soap, but it melts deliciously with body heat. Once we’re traveling again, since it’s solid, you can take it with you on a plane to combat the dry air. It’s great for massages too. The addition of glitter makes it perfect for pre-show sparkling!

    You can certainly find solid lotion for sale, but it’s easy to make your own. You need some speciality ingredients, but the process is so simple. I’ve had great success with this formula.

    Equal parts* of beeswax, coconut oil, and cocoa butter

    Gently melt all ingredients together over very low heat. When the mixture is liquid, pour into molds. I use 2-ounce silicone soap molds, but you could try a muffin tin or an ice cube tray. Let the bars cool and harden. Pop them out of the mold and store individually in tins or other containers.

    I think these smell wonderful as is, sort of honey-chocolate-coconut, but you can alway add a few drops of your favorite essential oil to the liquid mixture.

    Also, if you’re adding glitter, be sure to use cosmetic grade!

    Remember, these bars melt at body temperature, so when it starts getting hot out, stash them in your fridge.

    *By weight, not volume. One ounce of each is a good start and will give you a couple of hotel soap-sized bars.

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    Published in: on 10 April 2020 at 12:06 pm  Leave a Comment  

    To Pass The Time…

    Dear Constant Reader,

    I know so many of us are feeling trapped and restless. Here are a few diversions I’ve found to help pass the time and stay active in body and mind.

    The Enigma Emporium is offering their first set of postcard puzzles, Wish You Were Here, for free. Also, on their FB page, they post a puzzle every Friday — and there are years worth at this point.

    The Morbid Curiosity Podcast has been sharing virtual tours on their FB page. And of course you could always give the podcast a listen.

    Rory Raven is offering his walking tour of Salem on YouTube. Each short video provides a taste of Salem’s fascinating history.

    Angie Pontani is teaching burlesque and go-go routines at 3pm Eastern every Friday on IG Live. If you miss it, she’s putting the videos up on her YouTube, but, trust me, they’re more fun live.

    Her sister Tara aka Toning with Tara is running killer workout sessions via Zoom every weekday at 8:45am Eastern.

    You can join me on Wednesdays at 3pm Eastern on IG Live at @studyburlesque for a short burlesque lesson. Also, I’ve been doing a little reading aloud.

    What do you recommend to keep mind and body active?

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    Published in: on 1 April 2020 at 9:44 am  Leave a Comment  

    What am I up to?

    Dear Constant Reader,

    How are you dong in this new, weird reality?

    I’m pretty lucky because my day job (which I rarely talk about) can be done 99% from home. However, it does take up a lot of my time. Also, I’m spending a lot of time cleaning The Manor. I haven’t been nearly as creative or productive as I might have hoped. I haven’t even been snuggling Albert A. Cat as much as I (or he) would like.

    I’ve been working on getting B.A.B.E. on-line. I didn’t want to just leave people who had already registered hanging until we could reopen the studio. Who knows when that will be? We are going to start offering our classes remotely via Zoom this Thursday. It’s totally uncharted waters for me and I hope it works!

    I did a couple of mini-lessons on Instagram Live at @studyburlesque, one on floorwork and one with a boa combination. That was a lesson for me too. I’m so used to cuing off of students’ visual and verbal feedback that it was weird to just be playing to my phone. I knew people were watching right then, but I had no connection to them. It wasn’t even like recording a video, which I know will be watched later (and I can edit it).

    Perhaps fortunately, that floorwork lesson is lost forever, as I didn’t know how to save the video (Instagram does not make it easy or obvious). Now I know, and I even know how to recover a video once it’s gone to stories, although that’s clunky.

    I’m keeping these mini-lessons to 15-20 minutes — short and sweet. I’m also trying to figure out a consistent day and time to offer them. Let me know if there is anything you’d like to learn!

    We had a troupe meeting on-line during on Sunday rehearsal time and it was so good to see everyone. Devastasia has the best backgrounds. Albert made a special guest appearance on my feed. We’ll be meeting again regularly and working on some projects, as best we can.

    My partner, Mr. Scratch, unlike myself, is an essential worker. When he’s not producing burlesque shows, he’s a contractor. Right now, he’s renovating an old building that will be used for low-income housing. They’re in the final stages of painting and restoring some of the vintage details (his speciality) to make it beautiful. He says “just because it’s low-income housing, it doesn’t have to look like low-incoming housing”. He’s hiring as many out-of-work theatre people as he can. Right now he’s got a lighting designer, a rigger, and a playwright painting the place. They’re all being careful — since it’s an entire building, it’s easy to keep their distance, and they already had protective gear — but I do worry.

    I hope you are well, dear readers. Let me know how and what you’re doing.

    Next time I’ll share some resources to save off boredom and cabin fever.

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    Published in: on 31 March 2020 at 2:54 pm  Leave a Comment  

    Life in the Time of Coronavirus

    Dear Constant Reader,

    These are weird and frightening times. Most performers, burlesque and other, are out of work. Here in Boston all restaurants and bars are closed except for take out or delivery, but many are just closing for the duration, so all those people (some of whom are also performers) are out of work too. My heart goes out to all of those who have lost their income.

    The Great Burlesque Expo has been postponed until September. The RVA Burlesque Festival (where I was going to perform) was postponed for a full year. And I just closed B.A.B.E. for the duration.

    I’m going to see what I can do to provide entertainment and diversion for all of my Constant Readers. Give me your ideas for content you’d like to see in the comments below! At the very least, I’ll be writing here more often.

    Stay safe and healthy, my dear Readers.

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    Published in: on 17 March 2020 at 1:23 pm  Leave a Comment