Review: Honey Cup Cafe & Tearoom

Dear Constant Reader,

signOn Sunday I had the pleasure of being one of the first customers at the new Honey Cup Cafe and Tearoom in Manchester, NH. The Honey Cup is run by Mara, a B.A.B.E. student and burlesque performer a few years back. You know how much I love tea, so I’ve been eagerly following her updates about the project. It was so exciting to be invited to her soft opening!

Manchester is about an hour from Boston, but on a Sunday morning, the drive was easy and the autumn scenery was lovely, even on the highway. We entered through the cozy cafe and were seated in the much larger tearoom. The decor is very elegant: black walls, gold accents, and lots of floral motifs. We chose one of the low tables with a couch and armchairs, but there are standard height tables too.tea room interior

The menu has a variety of breakfast, lunch, and small bite items without being overwhelming. It being brunch time, Scratch ordered the potato waffle with milk oolong tea and pigs in blankets to share and Marek had a frittata with white velvet tea. Despite being tempted by some of my favorite dishes like clam chowder, overnight oats, and macaroni and cheese, I ordered the afternoon tea service with peach black tea. I just had to.

honey jarAll of the china was mismatched, but harmonious, floral patterns. The tea came in individual pots, with the tea already brewed, no leaves to deal with. Mine was delightful. I take my tea black, so I didn’t add any of the wee jar of honey (local, our server said), but Marek said it was delicious.

My order came on the traditional three-tiered server of savories, scones, and sweets, garnished with flowers, with dishes of butter, strawberry jam, and lemon curd. There was more than enough for me to share bits with my companions.

Afternoon Tea Service

First tier: Cucumber sandwich (a classic!), smoked salmon sandwich, chicken salad on a croissant, and a deviled egg. The sandwiches were on thicker bread than usual for tea sandwiches, but it was so good and didn’t overwhelm the fillings. I even liked the deviled egg, and you all know how I feel about eggs. My favorite was the chicken salad; the croissant was ridiculously flaky. I didn’t share that one at all.

There was a choice of three flavors of scone, one of which gluten-free. I picked the white chocolate-raspberry and they were SO GOOD. I have very high standards when it comes to scones and these met them. I particularly liked that the white chocolate was in chips rather than melted into the dough, in made for a more pronounced white chocolate flavor, with complimented the raspberries.

Lastly the sweets. We all agreed the madeleine was quite good (but not as good as mine) with a perfect bump on the back. The lemon macaron and chocolate petit four were each a perfect bite (and I did not share).

table settingOther positives, even though the tea room was full, it wasn’t particularly noisy; I had no trouble hearing my companions. The prices were perfectly reasonable. In fact, I think the afternoon tea was a pretty good deal. Although we didn’t indulge, there’s a small drinks menu with a couple of kinds of wine, cocktails, and bubbles.

The only thing I would knock points off for is the service, but I’m not going to, because this was their shakedown cruise. There was a little confusion about who was serving which table and a bit of unevenness as to when things arrived at the table. However, I’m confident that things will smooth out. That’s the whole point of a soft opening.

I appreciated the notes on the back of the tea menu defining the kinds of teas, like cream tea (with clotted cream) and royal tea (with sparkling wine), for those who might not be as well versed in such things. I was especially happy to see the explanation of the difference between afternoon tea and high tea — it makes me crazy when they are confused.

They’re open to the public now and I encourage you to go! I’m so happy for Mara for making this lovely oasis a reality and wish her all the best!

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Published in: on 7 November 2024 at 5:21 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Friday Tip

Dear Constant Reader,

I hope you had a happy Halloween! I certainly did!

In case you missed it, yesterday I posted two story readings, one public and one Patron-only.

And here’s your reminder to sign up for Weighted Silk Veils with Gaea Lady. It’s this Thursday!

I got this tip from Looking Glass Gems:

Use a cloth meant for cleaning glasses to polish your rhinestones.

You’ll keep them sparkling and can check for any loose ones in the process.

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Published in: on 1 November 2024 at 4:35 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Storytime: The Winding Sheet

Dear Constant Reader,

Happy Halloween!

To celebrate the holiday I want to share a reading from the story collection, Custom and Practice, by Rory O’Brien, author of Gallows Hill, The Afflicted Girl, and other books.

I have another story too, but it’s just for Patrons on Patreon… you know where to go if you want to hear it…

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Published in: on 31 October 2024 at 2:51 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Friday Tip

Dear Constant Reader,

Happy Friday before Halloween!

Tomorrow we are at House of Hatchets in Hyannis. Wear your Halloween finery! Get tickets here!

On November 7th guest instructor Gaea Lady will be teaching a weighted veil workshop at B.A.B.E.!What is a weighted veil? Watch this…

Wouldn’t you like to learn to do that…? If you’re on our mailing list, you’ve got a discount code for the workshop (and if you’re not, sign up). 

Here’s your tip!

To customize your costumes, Frankenstein your sewing patterns.

I’m not talking about digging them up from graveyards in the dead of night — I mean stitching different parts together. If you’ve got a pattern for a gown with a neckline you like, but the sleeves aren’t doing it for you, take the sleeves from a different pattern.

You do want to make sure that wherever you are grafting pieces together, that they fit together correctly. Check that the piece on the donor pattern is the same size and shape when it’s going to join the garment as the one you’re replacing before before you cut anything. You might have to do a little cosmetic surgery to adjust one or the other. This is especially important with sleeveheads and armscyes — you want those curves to match.

M2These writings and other creative projects are supported by my 19 Patrons. Thank you so much! To become a Patron, go to my Patreon page. Or you can just tip me if you liked this.

Published in: on 25 October 2024 at 4:49 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Friday Tip

Dear Constant Reader,

Next Saturday we are at House of Hatchets in Hyannis. Wear your Halloween finery! Get tickets here!

On November 7th guest instructor Gaea Lady will be teaching a weighted veil workshop at B.A.B.E.! If you’re on our mailing list, you’ve got a discount code (and if you’re not, sign up). Learn this fun art with one of the foremost practitioners!

And now… your tip!

When you loan something, take a picture of the person you are lending it to with the item, then text it to them.

Now you both have a record of who borrowed what from whom and when.

M2These writings and other creative projects are supported by my 19 Patrons. Thank you so much! To become a Patron, go to my Patreon page. Or you can just tip me if you liked this.

Published in: on 18 October 2024 at 1:41 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Friday Tip

Dear Constant Reader,

Happy Friday! I’ve got a whole bunch of things going on that I’m very excited about, so you’ll have to  read about them before we get to your tip.

We had a marvelous time at The Spookeasy Lab at Deacon Gilles. Both shows sold out! If you missed out, you can see us at House of Hatchets on the Cape on October 26. Wear your Halloween finery!

We’ve got some fun coming up at B.A.B.E. too. On November 7th guest instructor Gaea Lady will be teaching a weighted veil workshop. This was one of the best classes I took at the NOLA burlesque retreat and I became a convert. In fact, if you caught one of the shows on Saturday, that was a weighted veil I was using. If you’re on our mailing list, keep an eye out for a discount code.

I’ll be teaching a winter-themed striptease routine in December and a chair-dance routine in February, just in time for Valentine’s Day. Details coming soon!

Now that you’ve read through all that, here’s your tip!

If you use storage boxes or totes for your stuff (costumes, props, craft supplies, &c.), label them on the end, the side, and on the lid.

Not only will you be able to see what’s in each container no matter how they’re oriented, you’ll also know right away which lid belongs to which box. This comes in very handy when you’ve opened a whole bunch of boxes that are not quite exactly the same size or manufacturer and the lids are all in a pile…

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Published in: on 11 October 2024 at 5:17 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Halloween Under Bits

Dear Constant Reader,

This past Saturday was our first Halloween show. I may write about it in more detail later — this is just to show you my new shiny bits.

Last year, after a planned act failed to come together, I swapped in “Moon Over Bourbon Street”, a rather pretentious fan dance, a few days before the show. At the last minute, I realized I could reinforce the vampire theme with a pair of bat pasties. They were literally made the night before and, while they were cute, I wasn’t happy with them. They were too big and the minimal rhinestoning didn’t pop at all.

This year I planned ahead and made new bat pasties, using a template from Manuge et Toi.
Bat pasties
The rhinestones are mostly from Looking Glass Gems, with some black diamond Swarovskis Scratch had in his stash.

Next up, I needed a new g-string for “Satanic Panic” as the one I had been using was going to be appearing in “Bourbon Street”. I wanted it to be flame-themed to match the pasties* I had made for the act’s debut. I decided to challenge myself and make the g-string flame-shaped as well as colored.

Flame pasties & g-string

That g-string is heavy! I’m not sure I’ve ever stoned a garment other than pasties that solidly before. Fortunately, it stays in place pretty securely. I’m pretty pleased with how it came out. The photo really doesn’t do the colors justice, especially the shifting shades of the phoenix rhinestones (the orange-ish stones).

As with the bats, the majority of the rhinestones are from Looking Glass Gems, except the citrine on the pasties which are Swarovski.

While I was working on the g-string, and really feeling on a roll, I went to visit my parents. I wanted to keep working, but my bottle of glue was too big to take on the plane. I grabbed one of my TSA-compliant toiletry containers and dumped in a hefty glop of Jewel Bond. Rhinestoning on a plane is a bit challenging, but at least I (and probably my seatmate) was entertained.

M2These writings and other creative projects are supported by my 19 Patrons. Thank you so much! To become a Patron, go to my Patreon page. Or you can just tip me if you liked this.

*Although Manuge et Toi now has a flame pastie template, these pasties were made about a year before it was released. It would have made my life so much easier and my pastie design so much cleaner.

Published in: on 10 October 2024 at 3:35 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Friday Tip

Dear Constant Reader,

Happy Friday! Tomorrow is our annual Halloween show at Deacon Giles in Salem! The early show is completely sold out, but there are a few (only a few) tickets left for the late show. If you didn’t manage to snag tickets, we’ll be on the Cape at House of Hatchets on October 26.

Commercial plug done, here’s your tip:

Lift with your legs, not your back.

This is not a cautionary tale. Sometimes these tips are about mistakes I made so you don’t have to. Not this one. I’m fine. I want you to stay fine too.

If you’re like us, you have to schlep stuff to make shows happen, like set pieces, lights, and other heavy or ungainly things. Although performing is the fun stuff, sometimes we have to be roadies in order to make the magic happen.

Please follow the advice above whenever you’ve got lift something*. And if it’s too heavy for you to move alone, ask for help. Back injuries are serious and can take you off the stage for a long time.

*Or someone! That might need to be its own tip though…

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Published in: on 4 October 2024 at 4:47 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Mystery Madeleines

Dear Constant Reader,

When I wrote about our recent tea party, I mentioned that I had always wanted to try baking madeleines, but had never bought the pans. For those unfamiliar, madeleines are delicate little cakes shaped like sea shells, for which one needs a special pan. A well-made madeleine is tender, lightly browned around the edges, with a distinctive bump on the back.

I was certainly surprised when a package arrived on The Manor’s doorstep containing a pair of madeleine pans!
Madeleine pan
Although there was no note, I soon figured out that they had come from my doting mother (she’s the only person who uses my middle initial when addressing mail). Still, I enjoyed the mystery for a few moments.

As I was visiting her in a very short time, I decided the correct thing to do would be to bring her the fruits of my baking. After looking at a number of recipes, I went with the one in NYTimes Cooking, with gluten-free flour and a few flavoring modifications (lemon zest instead of orange, some vanilla, and a tiny splash of almond extract).

I over-filled the pans, so I didn’t get perfect shells,
Madeleines cooling
but look at those lovely bumps!
Madeleines in pan
They were so delicious! And really not hard to make, if you work with some precision, as is so often the case with baking.
Front and back

I will definitely be baking these again. And I found some savory madeleine recipes as well that sound wonderful. I guess I shall host a tea party soon.

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Published in: on 30 September 2024 at 3:26 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Friday Tip

Dear Constant Reader,

Happy Friday!

Have a cancellation clause in your contract.

No one wants to cancel a show, but it happens. Audiences still haven’t rebounded to pre-pandemic levels, for one thing. Whether you are the producer of a show or you’ve been hired to perform, negotiate a cancelation fee in advance. Know how much you have to pay or will be paid*, if the show doesn’t go forward. Nothing should be a surprise to anyone.

*Producers may have to pay the venue a cancelation fee or the venue may pay the producer, depending of the situation.

M2These writings and other creative projects are supported by my 19 Patrons. Thank you so much! To become a Patron, go to my Patreon page. Or you can just tip me if you liked this.

Published in: on 27 September 2024 at 1:30 pm  Leave a Comment  
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