Dear Constant Reader,
Happy Friday! Here’s your tip!
Basting before sewing many seem like a waste of time, but trust me, it isn’t.
Friday Tip!
Dear Constant Reader,
I’m on my way to Toronto, but of course I wouldn’t skip your Friday Tip!
To properly prep your pout, use a little lip balm before you put on your lipstick.
Yes, there are expensive lip primers out there, but a touch of your favorite balm will soften lips and fill in the gaps. I make my own, but I’ve heard stylists recommend plain old Chapstick or Blistex.
And don’t forget to exfoliate your lips on a regular basis. I like Sugar Kisses from, who else, Dr. Jen at Atomic Cosmetics, but you could mix up a little white sugar and some oil (I like almond) and use that to exfoliate.
Kisses,
Friday Tip!
Dear Constant Reader,
Happy Friday! Here’s your tip!
If your elbow is going to bend during your glove remove, slide the glove down below the elbow first.
Otherwise the fabric gets trapped in the crook of your elbow and your effortless glove peel becomes, well, less so.
Friday Tip!
Dear Constant Reader,
Happy Friday! Here’s your tip:
When in doubt, keep your mouth shut.
Resist the urge to indulge in gossiping, back-stabbing, or bad-mouthing. It may make you feel good to tear someone down, but it just makes you look bad.
Friday Tip!
Dear Constant Reader,
I’m in sunny Florida right now, but I wouldn’t forget your tip!
Go outside.
Turn off the screens and enjoy some fresh air.
Friday Tip!
Dear Constant Reader,
Happy Friday! Here’s your tip:
Read a book!
Any book. It doesn’t have to be about burlesque. Read a paper book. Read an e-book. Just read. It’s good for you.
And if you are interested in a burlesque book, there are plenty out there and many can be found in The Boston Babydolls’ Library.
Friday Tip!
Dear Constant Reader,
I’m sorry for the lack of dispatches this week. I’ve been awfully busy doing what feels like a whole lot of nothing and it’s left me kind of uninspired. Help inspire me! What do you want to see on this blog?
But despite everything, I would not forget your Friday Tip!
Take time to relax and recharge.
Go for a walk, read a book, take a bath, dance for fun, watch a movie. Get away from work (even if you love it) for a little while.
That’s advice I plan to take tonight.
Friday Tip!
Dear Constant Reader,
Happy Friday! Here’s your tip:
Be subtle with your scent.
Perfume and other forms of fragrance are lovely, but use a light touch. You don’t want to be That Person who has everyone gagging and gasping in her wake. You know who I’m talking about…
If your perfume (parfum, cologne, eau de toilette, &c.) is in an atomizer, spritz the air just in front of you and walk though the spray, preferably naked. If it’s in a bottle, use your finger to lightly dab a touch on your pulse points: wrists, throat, back of knees. That’s really all you need.
You want a ghost of your scent to cling, not an aromatic bludgeon to assault.
I’m all for signature scents (and I wish I could decide on one!). You can always use several products from the same line for a gentle layering effect, like perfume, lotion, and soap. Sometimes you can even find sachets or scented drawer liners.
Don’t wear fragrance of any kind in enclosed places (plane, bus, &c.) or places that are going to get warm (dance rehearsal, yoga class, &c.) It’s just polite not to overwhelm your compatriots.
Friday Tip!
Dear Constant Reader,
Happy Friday! Time for a tip! This piece of advice comes from Mr. Scratch, from whom I have learned many valuable things about business and communication.
Send handwritten thank you notes.
You should always send thank you notes — to a producer who booked you, to a photographer who shot you, &c. — and obviously a quick email serves that purpose. However, people are always delighted to received an actual something in the mail; it so rarely happens these days. And it shows you took the time and care to hand-write a note, address it, stamp it, and mail it. Plus, most people don’t want to toss something like that in the trash, so your note will linger, reminding them of you.
It’s also a great excuse to have a library of appropriate stationary and cards. Just look at Lili St. Cyr’s personalized stationary! If you had letterhead like this, wouldn’t you want to send letters?
Friday Tip!
Dear Constant Reader,
Happy Friday! Today’s tips is based on a recent sad experience for a whole bunch of people.
Facebook is the worst method of communication.
If you need to get in touch with someone, especially in a professional capacity, DO NOT send them a FB message. There’s a good chance it will end up in the “other” folder.
What “other” folder?, you may ask. Go to your messages and next to “Inbox” there’s a greyed-out link called “other”. Click it and get ready to cry at all the missed opportunities…
If you want to send a message to someone and have them get it, use email.
If you want to get all your messages, make your email address easily available. And let people know that you want to be emailed not messaged. And then respond promptly to emails.
